Sunday 27 January 2013

The Upside of Endings and Goodbyes...

Life comes with it's share of farewells and adieus. Choicelessly.

I can't say I know a single person who hasn't felt tragic pain and loss in these circumstances. Some of us deal with it better than others.

I dont take well to farewells. In fact, it seems pointless that everything must come to an end - if that's what's gonna happen, then why even begin? Why struggle? Why celebrate?

Well, honestly I don't know. It sometimes feels like we just need to be pre-occupied. Like we're not supposed to ask about why we're going on a journey but go along anyway. Yet strangely, life is like that... as surely as it starts, it will end. And so must everything.

But I realized something about endings - that they challenge you and force you to evolve and find new meaning. To somehow find a way out of the pain you feel to experience something new that will eventually carve a new meaning in your life.

And one day, you will say bye to that too. Deja Vu!

Yet, there is always endless beauty in each of these. Its great to have moments to cherish.


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